How often do we hear "she is so great in bed", "she is gorgeous" or "the night with her was just unforgettable." And every time you may ask yourself what is there so special about her that is considered to be a stunt. So answer these questions to get a more precise image of a great lover.

1. Do you like sex?
Yes, you've got it right. Can you say for sure that you really like sex and you don't consider sex as a duty, a way to control your partner or to prove your high-rate skills? If you say yes to one of those questions, you may not say that sex is really enjoyable for you. Sex is an essential part of our life and our attitude towards it plays a major role not only on our behavior in the bedroom but on our relationships with the opposite sex in general. Do you consider yourself being free of prejudices? Are you embarrassed to use sex toys? Think about it. The use of sex toys is no more different than using a massager, it's pleasant and it gives you a lot of satisfaction and why should you feel ashamed about being happy?

2. Do you like sex experiments?
Nothing kills sex easier than a humdrum sex and the well-known scenario of sex intercourse. Be inventive and sometimes unpredictable. In fact the desire for experiments will come as soon as you become more open to new things. Even if tying up your partner with handcuffs or handing a female vibrator to him doesn't seem inspiring to you, why not taste the "forbidden"? And in case the missionary position is not really satisfying for you, why should you inhibit yourself to an all-accepted pattern? Suggesting new techniques or revealing your sex fantasies is not a sign of your promiscuity or immorality. It's just shows your love a real adornment.

3. Do you initiate sex?
Lying like a corpse is an abhorrence to most men. It's like saying: "Do something! I'll wait and watch if you are able to make things work". If you've never initiated sex before, just do it! He shouldn't serve you, and shouldn't feel like torturing "poor girl" just because he is supposed to give and she is supposed to receive. Being an active part though doesn't mean to be aggressive. Learn to be seductive and you will head the list of best lovers.

4. Are you curious about sex?
Saying: "There is nothing new to find out" is completely wrong! Today we have plenty of information in books and internet concerning sexual relationships with numerous sex tips not only advising to variegate your sex life but also to change your attitude towards sex in general. Of course, practice is what really makes our intimate relationships better, but how can you learn the alphabet without being taught it first. And there are also plenty things to tackle using a new pitch. For example, do you know what a female vibrator is? If not, why not get to know a female vibrator better?

5. Do you use sex toys?
So let's talk about sex toys: dildos, butt plugs, female vibrator and the stuff. You think sex toys are nasty devices, designed for those who do not have a "way-out" or are weird, failure, freak and the like? Nothing of the kind! Sex toys were invented to enhance your sexuality and your sexual responses to the same degree as your partner does. Any woman can use female vibrator for solo sex, not because she lacks thrilling sensations in the bedroom (why not anyway?), but simply because she wants to know her body better. In this regard female vibrator may serve as a perfect sex toy to make a day of it, when you are in left in private. And what could be more desirable for a man than a woman, knowing what she wants and how to achieve this sexual pleasure?
6. Can you take embarrassing situation easy?

Do you take sex too seriously? Don't, please. Real sexual relationships don't resemble a well-worn scene in erotic movie. They don't show your trembling hands trying to put the condom at the most important moment, and you won't see a female vibrator stuck in his anus by mere accident. All this will be left outside the film set. You may face embarrassing situations just anytime and anywhere as no one is perfect in this world. Just imagine that your partner didn't managed to get erection (things happen and very often, by the way). What are you going to do? A bad lover would probably laugh or gaze at him in horror. But if you are a "good and caring partner", you will do anything to make the other side feel comfortable enough, even handing a female vibrator to your partner and asking him to stimulate your body. So take it easy and your partner will be grateful to you.

7. Do you communicate in bed?
We are not mind readers and unfortunately even if you both spend quite a long period of time together, there is still a lot to know about each other especially if it concerns such delicate issues as our sexual desires. Suggesting what gives you more pleasure, what touches are more enjoyable and what touches seem too rough is an essential part of happy and fulfilling sexual relationships.

If you've answered yes to all these questions you may consider yourself to be a great lover, if not there is much to improve. Don't give up!